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Is Clothing a Form of Self Hypnosis?I recently signed up for a coaching session with Style and Makeover Expert Kimberly Seltzer.
And in the process it caused me to “get” on a deep, visceral level, that the clothing we wear is actually a form of self hypnosis as well as “group” hypnosis.
The clothing we wear and the “look” we generate can affect our own self confidence and literally how we act and “show up” in the world. It is also a very powerful and effective form of communication to the unconscious minds of other people and guides them in the instant evaluation process that we all go through when we first meet each other.
Dress poorly in cheap clothes from Kohls (which is what I did for years), and guess what? People kind of “get” that unconsciously and they take you less seriously. Dress well in clothes that fit your body properly and communicate what you actually want to communicate to other people, and somehow it’s just easier to get your point across, to influence and teach and in my case, to positively touch the lives of other people in a significant way.
The old saying goes, “The Clothes make the Man”. I’m not so sure about that, however, after working with Kim to choose clothing that more accurately communicates to other people (particularly my audiences) who I already am, I would definitely say that “The Clothes COMMUNICATE the Man (or the woman for that matter).
Since I am a man, and like most straight guys pretty clueless when it comes to style, I want to specifically challenge other men who are working on becoming more “masterful” in their lives, work, and relationships to definitely include this very important piece of the self improvement process.
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Kimberly Seltzer America’s #1 Dating Makeover and Confidence Expert
EliteImageMakeOvers.com
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I highly urge you to check out her website and do whatever it takes to get her advice and assistance.
I started small 2 years ago with a 1 hour skype session. It took me about 6 months to start clearing out my closet and figure out where to get clothing that fit me better as well as to change my glasses etc.
I wish now I had taken the more thorough and faster process of flying out to Southern California and doing a half day coaching/shopping session sooner.
Holy guacamole! What a huge difference.
I’ve made a short video below that I highly suggest you watch (in case you want to see more, there’s also a link so you can see all of the outfits Kim helped me to buy).
And then I highly suggest you take IMMEDIATE action and contact her.
She is completely easy to talk to (she was a licensed family/marriage therapist before she got into this coaching work). So you will feel at ease and comfortable with her. You will love how you look and more importantly how you FEEL after her coaching.
So check out the video and let me know what you think.
Again, I ask you to consider as you watch the video: Is clothing a form of self hypnosis? If so why not fully use it to get to where you want to go, to be who you want to be easier, faster, better.
If you would like to see more of the end result of my 4 hour “hypnosis session in bloomingdales with Kimberly Seltzer”…
I’ve posted all 12 of the videos here: http://markshepard.com/2016/08/style-transformation-kimberly-seltzer/
and again here is Kim’s website. Contact here today!
Kimberly Seltzer America’s #1 Dating Makeover and Confidence Expert
EliteImageMakeOvers.com
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The really important thing is just to be fully aware that you can realize the change you’re looking for…
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Imagine YOU.If you’re open to learning and applying what you learn, I can teach you how…
– Mark Shepard, NLPT – “America’s Honest Hypnotist”
The really important thing is just to be fully aware that you can realize the change you’re looking for…
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I’ve been MASSIVELY fired upsince Dr. Donnie Epstein reached out to me last week regarding my Together We Can Change The World Song and I’ve got new songs literally pouring through me faster than I can write them down and work on them…
So here’s another new one, it’s a short, simple hypnotic chant which could be sung in a group setting as a “warm up” or “ice breaker” or for your own self hypnosis and walking meditation practice as you go about your day.
Let it get stuck in your head. Fill up that Rostromedial Pre-frontal Cortex with self love baby!!!
Here’s the video. (please note, it ain’t no polished studio recording. But you know that right? It’s FRESH! :o)
Song # 508 | 12/8/2015 | acapella chant
Oh baby I’m amazing!
Oh baby I’m amazing
Oh baby I’m amazing
Oh Yes I am!
Oh baby you’re amazing!
Oh baby you’re amazing
Oh baby you’re amazing
Ph Yes you are!
Oh baby we’re amazing!
Oh baby we’re amazing
Oh baby we’re amazing
Oh Yes we are!
Inspired by the work of Dr. Donny Epstein, http://WiseWorldSeminars.com
Copyright 2015 by Mark Shepard.
You totally have my permission to sing this song anytime, anywhere, with anyone you want.
Just let people know where they can find more ok?
http://Honesthypnosis.com or http://MarkShepardSongs.com thanks!
Cowabungah Baby! I will see YOU on the INSIDE!
– Mark
p.s. Getting a lot of questions about Performance Anxiety lately, on stage, on the athletic field, in the boardroom and in the bedroom. What about you? is there anyplace in your life where you do fine at something until someone else is watching? Would you be interested in a specific course to help conquer performance anxiety in your life? Talk to me.
p.p.s. in the meantime check out my CRUSH anxiety NOW! Course it’s got the tools you need to get back in the game.
My dad and sister are visiting me today, so as much as I would like to lay some fresh, Mind Mastery stuff on you right now, I’m going to go hang out with them because I don’t get to see them very often… which is nice too ;o)
I thought long and hard for about 15 seconds on a song that might be helpful to you on this last Monday in November.
hmmmmm. Times up! Why do I make a decision and take action. NOW!
And ultimately everything I do boils down to being able to do what you want, when you want, where you want and with whom you want. It also means having what you want. and ultimately being who you really want to be.
That, my friend, is “freedom”.
Enjoy this song… freely.
Pay attention. There will be a test. :o)
– Mark
p.s. Cowabungah!
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Song #312 | 12/12/2000 | CD: Eyes On The Horizon
Freedom is a word
That is very often heard
But just as often much misunderstood
It might mean nothing left to lose
Or that you get to choose
Between two leaders, neither of them good
It could mean you have got no plans
Or that you cut loose when you dance
It might mean you got the guts to speak your mind
It could mean you have no regrets,
Beliefs, possessions, pets
Or that you always pay your bills on time
Refrain:
It’s been a long road
That I’ve been walking down
That I’ve been lost and found on
It’s been a long road
That I’ve been walking down
But now I hear the sounds of…
Freedom
I choose not to be a slave
To the assumptions you have made
And I accept the consequences of my choice
I will make my own mistakes
I will find out what it takes
From now on I will heed my inner voice
I pledge allegiance to my self
For the sake of my own health
Not a country or a point of view
If I declare myself to be
A human being free
Well you know, that gives your freedom back to you
Refrain:
Bridge: Freedom. Freedom.(X2)
Freedom is a bird
That is seldom seen or heard
But still it rises up on falcon’s wings
And when it bursts up into flight
With it’s feathers full of light
It fills my heart with joy to hear it sing…
Copyright 2000-2015 by Mark Shepard. All Rights Reserved. Used by permission.
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Thanks for listening!
– Mark
p.s. Quick Announcement: if you, or anyone you know is interested in quitting smoking and experiencing the “freedom” of breathing fresh air, we just got my new course, “Stop Smoking Dammit!” set up for beta testing. For a short time it’s going to be available for a lot less. But if you’re not ready yet that’s cool too. When the price goes up it will still be cheaper than smoking. :o)
Some People Make A Living Surfing.Yes?
OK.
So I have a point to make. I make it pretty clearly in this video. Watch it to find out.
So what do you think? What is it for you that is the equivalent of “surfing”?
And what do you tell yourself when you see other people doing what you would “love” to do?
What would it be like to be able to let go of those old limiting beliefs AT WILL? Easily? Safely?
Once the “table is cleared” of old patterns, baggage, habits, limiting beliefs etc, you can then install beliefs that SUPPORT your healing, personal growth, and expansion…
Sometimes it takes a moment. Sometimes it takes a long time. Either way it’s worth going for…
Learn how in CRUSH anxiety FOREVER! (special beta test price expires soon)
– Mark
p.s. if someone can make a living surfing, I personally believe that it MUST be possible do find a way to make a living that YOU love.
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