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What Women Really Want

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38983255_sFired up by yesterday’s humor piece, Beware The Dog House, where guys who gave thoughtless, sexist, misogynistic gifts got sent to the purgatory of a concentration camp/prison called “the Dog House” I started thinking…

What is it that women really want?

Aside from the fact that the mainstream media seems bent on emasculating us men and manipulating us to put women up on pedestals so we buy them whatever shiny shit they say they want… there seems to be something else going on…

I get that men often forget to give gifts or often don’t put a lot of thought behind their gifts or give their woman something that the guy actually wants. And yeah, those guys are immature and clueless.

But legions of “nice” guys attempt to overcompensate by giving such incredible gifts that somehow will make her love them more and that usually back fires as well (for him, not for the restaurant, florist or jewelry businesses)…

I remember one weekend searching every store for a baking pan that didn’t have some kind of “non-stick coating” on it so I could bake a cake for my girlfriend at the time. She was a fanatic about toxic chemicals leaching into our food. So out of respect for her I wanted to make sure even her birthday cake was “in compliance” with her wishes.

How thoughtful of me?

Yes it was thoughtful but on another level, not really. I was afraid she would reject me and put me in the dog house if I didn’t do it “right.”

I was tip toeing around HER agenda.

And when she got home from the meditation retreat where she went to celebrate her birthday without me, she wasn’t particularly impressed with my valiant efforts to make her a great meal and welcome her home with full romantic fanfare.

WTF?

Women SAY they want a man to cater to their every whim and desire. And we “good guys,” “nice guys,” caring guys who fall for that are missing something MASSIVELY significant.

Women don’t want a man who tippy toes around them or their feelings. Women want a man to lead them. Yes they want a man who is not totally clueless about their preferences and desires, BUT. Ultimately women are repulsed by pleasers.

THEY want to PLEASE their MAN. They want to look up with admiration to their man.

Interesting note: When I was searching for a stock photo for this post, I typed in “women admiring a powerful man” to see what would come up. NOTHING. This is so beneath the radar of our culture that there are no pictures in t he thousands and thousands of stock photos that represent what I’m talking about. Interesting. Finally I found a pic where if you notice, HE is leading HER. She is looking at him with admiration. HE is looking back at her from his place of power.

This explains why so many women are hot for CEO’s, Doctors, Lawyers, Millionaires, Movie Stars. They are attracted to POWER. They are not attracted to WIMPY-NESS.

They want a man who is so into his own MASSIVE THROBBING vision for his life that if he does remember her birthday she is grateful simply for the acknowledgement and his appreciation of her.

A lot of women say they are waiting for their “prince.”

But ultimately women do not want a “prince” — they want a KING.

Think about it. A “Prince” is usually a spoiled, self absorbed, immature, privileged, coddled and narcissistic brat.

A “King” on the other hand has shit to do. He has more important things to do than a prince. He has a kingdom to run. He has enemies to deal with. He has responsibilities and demands upon his time, talent and treasure. He is a leader. He is powerful. He is feared.

What women really want is a man like that who in spite of all that he has to deal with, still remembers her birthday.

Why? Because she looks up to him and realizes that he is on a higher level than she is and yet she still matters to him.

Does that make any logical sense?

In other words if SHE is the King in your relationship with her, then you BETTER get her a great gift or you will be sent away from “court.”

Ultimately it is all about Who has the power. Women will try to take your power from you. But they don’t really want to succeed at that. They want YOU to be immune to their power plays and to prove that you are THEIR King.

It is called a “test”

So here are your action steps for the day…

  1. Fvck the dog house. BEWARE of the barrage of emasculating messages from the mainstream media. Turn off the TV. Turn off the Radio. Take even their ‘humor’ with a grain of salt. Pay attention to what your woman is really saying between the lines of her complaints. She wants to matter to her powerful, dominant man. She wants to be touched by his thoughtfulness BECAUSE he is more focused on his path and mission than on her. It seems like a paradox and perhaps it is. But it really isn’t the gift that matters. It is the THOUGHT that counts.
  2. So really the greatest gift you can give her is to focus on becoming master of YOUR world. Master of your life. MASTER of your relationships. Again, that doesn’t mean becoming a bossy, arrogant asshole, it’s about OWNING your own power and purpose for your life. It’s about getting your ass in gear and going for greatness.

No one teaches us men how to be the kinds of men we could be. Most of us have been raised by women, taught by women, trained to obey and supplicate to women. That has to stop.

It is time to step fully into your own personal mastery as a man. It’s time to become the KING in your own life, in your own world, in your relationships.

King? I meant EMPEROR!

Need help? Know when to get some coaching. Start educating yourself about this stuff.

Your world is about to get a lot bigger… Your Majesty.

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Beware The Dog House

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Watch this video. Watch it very, very carefully.

Notice how the message is clear that you, a man, are clueless, thoughtless, pathetic and unforgivable if you give your woman the “wrong” gift for your birthday…

We call these “Anti-male mass media compliance messages” Just notice and pay attention. We are all being bombarded with these every single day.

Dude! If you don’t think you are being manipulated by the mass media to be a vassal and a boot licking submissive “nice” guy to your woman, think again.

And ever wonder how all those fucking jewelry stores stay in business? Selling shiny, useless “stuff”.

Oh gee, I don’t know, perhaps a never ceasing BARRAGE of commercials, infomercials and outright mass hypnosis.

Not suggesting you be a thoughtless ass hole either. But how about giving your woman an EXPERIENCE that blows her mind and transports her into an ecstatic state of erotic arousal…

Forget the vacuum cleaner. Get her a hot submissive bi-sexual “maid” who you can fuck together!

COWABUNGAH!

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Why Do Men Change Their Behavior Around Women?

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woman censoring manWe’ve all done it.

Subtly or not so subtly, we guys will suddenly clean up our language and behavior when a woman walks into the room.

It’s called “Self Censoring”. Instead of freely speaking our minds, we somehow instantly start mouthing politically correct platitudes and kissing the ass of the dominant cultural rule book.

We have all been so fvcking brainwashed to be nice, good little boys around “female authority figures” (People with Vaginas), that we instantly hide our true personalities and behaviors in order to “please” or be accepted by women.

In case you’re wondering. Yeah. That has to go. The beauty of the leading edge change and transformation tools of NLP and Hypnosis is that we can change shit fast, forever. Even this often unconscious, knee-jerk reaction type of stuff.

In today’s video I go DEEP into this subject and give you some powerful take away tools to IMMEDIATELY start stepping into your power as a man.

If you haven’t yet jumped at the chance to get your daily personal mastery and peak performance posts WTF are you waiting for? It ain’t politically correct but it will get you what you want.

Do it now. Freedom and Power await you my brother.
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What Do Women Really Want?

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What do women REALLY want?

Busting Modern Myths About Men that Women “Logically” Believe But Don’t “Bio-Logically”…

… causing us guys to heroically attempt to live up to them, only to fail miserably, disappointing our women and ourselves for no good reason.

Myth One: “There is a man out there who is the ONE.”

Just visit any online dating site and peruse a few of the profiles women put up where they talk about their “match.”

The majority seem to believe there is actually, somewhere “out there” the perfect “Prince Charming” who will sweep her off her feet and be perfectly agreeable, companionable, honest and loyal. This man will be strong, handsome, patient, compassionate, able to show his feelings, able to empathize with her feelings, able to support her in a manner to which she would love to become accustomed, and generally be kind to small animals and children.

This man does not exist. What she is actually describing is a Labrador Retriever. And probably a female Lab to boot…

And what’s worse, the men who have sucked it in and attempted to be this agreeable, companionable and loyal “guy” basically get shoved into the friend zone. Women either inexplicably find “no chemistry” with this man or find him to be “unattractive” or downright repulsive.

Want to test this? Try showing your emotions sometime. Get all emotional and sad and weepy about something your boss said or didn’t say to you. “He doesn’t appreciate me” sniff sniff…

“Man up!” she’ll probably say. “Stop whining and do your job like a man!” If she doesn’t say it, she’s thinking it.

Or try this, tell her you love her and adore her and only want to be with her every single moment of the day…. then watch her run for the exit!

Ultimately the Modern Man that many Modern Women yearn for is a myth-o-logical, idea built up by years and years of movies and fantasy novels and feminist rallys. The “real” man she wants is a guy who doesn’t take her shit seriously. A guy who is truly the rock and lighthouse to her “ocean of emotion”. But she will never admit that. Mostly because she doesn’t even know it herself.

Ultimately she doesn’t want an equal. She actually wants a guy she looks up to, a guy who SHE wants to please and validate herself to.

This is kind of weird but by being the “nice” guy you thought she wanted you to be, you were being the exact opposite of what she really wants.

By trying to be the guy she wants, you are actually lowering your “status” in her “monkey mind” (we are primates remember). The guy she wants doesn’t change HIS behavior to be what SHE wants. Kind of weird huh? Illogical? Myth-o-logical?

But it IS…. “BIO-LOGICAL”.

So she may be looking for the One and admit that you have a lot of the traits she says she wants but she won’t be able to actually tell you Why she is Not attracted to YOU…. She may SAY she wants a guy like you. But what she really wants deep in her animal body is a man who can kill shit.

For her.

And protect her ass and her future children from bad guys.

This guy, she BIO-LOGICALLY wants by the way, doesn’t ask permission to kiss her or anything else for that matter. He just goes for what he wants.

Is that YOU? Nope. Not yet. But we are going to fix that. Check out my new course: How To Become The Man The Women You Want…Really Want.

“Oh but she’s so HOT, Mark. I’ll never find anyone else as wonderful as her…”

Fuck that. Get her down off that pedestal. She takes a shit just like you do. And it smells just as bad as your shit. And trust me your shit smells bad dude… Sheesh! Use the air freshener next time.

Beauty is common. Depth is rare. You are now the kind of man who doesn’t care… Time to learn how to be unattached to outcomes. 

You are NOT the ONE.

But imagine for a moment that you ARE the guy she will fvck without demanding a commitment.

Why? Because you are unashamedly selfish and self absorbed, into your own thing that is way more important to you than her… You need your space. And she respects that. Because if she gave you shit about it you would send her away or go away without a backward glance… and never fvck her again.

And she wants you to fvck her like the bad boy you are… a lot. But you are busy. Oh well. She’ll have to wait.

You are also “lazy” in some folks eyes because you don’t spend every second working in some fucking cubicle. Oh and you don’t give a shit how much money you have in the bank even if you are a millionaire… Of course if you’re really a millionaire she will chase you harder. Not because of the money but because you’re the kind of guy who puts his plans into action and takes charge of his own life and business.

She knows with you that it’s only a matter of time before you lose interest in her… because there are so many other women who want to fvck you… It just makes sense to her on some deep level… the BIO-LOGICAL level.

Hey, I didn’t invent this system. NATURE did. If  you want to learn how to have it SERVE you (and ironically SERVE the women in your life) for a change instead of drive you nuts check out the course: How To Become The Man The Women You Want…Really Want.

Social Proof: Women want a man who other women want...
Social Proof: Women want a man who other women want…

Myth Two: “Monogamy is normal”

BUSTED. As the Bruce Cockburn song goes, “The trouble with “normal” is it always gets worse…”

Let’s be honest. Monogamy doesn’t exist.

It is a fantasy state that may flicker past for a moment when the sexual energy is good, but it is a total illusion… Think about it. Two people actually promise to not have sex with anyone else? For the rest of their lives? And how often does that bullshit promise they make to each other crash and burn?

Like mostly.

I currently have two girlfriends and I think about having sex with them all the time, except when I’m imagining having sex with other women.

The difference is I am being honest about that with my women and they are honest about the hots they have for other guys.

My last monogamous girlfriend was adamant that there were men (somewhere) who once they decided to be with someone only wanted to have sex with that one person. She  BELIEVED this. I was attempting to be honest with her and told her I was attracted to somebody. Well she couldn’t handle that. She would rather be alone than with an honest man.

Maybe there are men who only want their woman (or women) to have sex with them. But those guys will still want other women…

Usually the same women who are searching for the “One,” seem to think that once they find this mythical man, he will only want to have sex with HER. For the rest of his life.

The bottom line is that after a few years of even the best sex, (make that days), any actual man with an actual penis and balls will want to fvck some other woman or women… If most men were honest they would tell you that the more sex they get with their “monogamous” partner, the more they want other women and strangely, the more other women seem to be attracted to them.

Truth be told. Women get bored too. In fact women have an even greater capacity for sexual expression than men do. More women also identify with being bi-sexual which totally increases their chance of a date on a Saturday night with someone OTHER than her main squeeze.

So ultimately even the women who preach monogamy aren’t that good at it either.

What do women REALLY want?
What do women REALLY want?

Myth Three: Men Pursue Women Not The Other Way Around.

This is sort of true but only in a certain context. We’ve all experienced a guy seeing a hot woman and charging after her like a crazed bull after a herd of heifers in heat.

Who doesn’t want to be wanted?

But many hot women understand deep down that even if the thing that everybody likes about her (her looks) is a total freak of nature’s lottery that happens to be culturally in style as “sexy” these days… It’s still nice that other people value it… But ultimately hot women want to be valued for more than their looks… of course plain women might feel the opposite.

Either way, they actually WANT to be the pursuers.

They want to look up to their man. A man of higher status. A man of power and prestige. A man of influence. A man pursuing his path and not really aware of her… or bothering to notice her… A man she can admire from afar and work to get close to.

The other reason that women are not attracted to guys chasing them, is that it’s too easy – Easy, not as in immoral, easy as in “just not challenging”.

In other words: boring.

For example: “He adores me and I’m a bitch to him because he’s a dull, boring fool who just lets me have my own way… boring, boring, boring.” Haven’t you ever overheard a conversation like that at a diner or bar?

The reason women love a bad boy is that he doesn’t tiptoe around them. He shows up and takes what he wants, gives only what he wants, says what he wants, does what he wants.  And because what he wants is so fvcking cool and interesting, she wants to follow his lead.

She can also trust him because he is HONEST. If he doesn’t want to do something he says so. The “nice” guy will usually lie and pretend he WANTS to do shit with her that he is only doing because he thinks doing what she wants is what she wants…

Crazy huh?

The deep BIO-LOGICAL program my friend is “Her Pursuing YOU.”

But the question is, are you interesting enough for the kind of women you really want?

Or, Are you at this moment kind of boring? Come on be honest! Be honest with yourself. Are living the life you want to be living?

Imagine your dream is to travel the world fly fishing, making music with the locals,  connecting with region’s sustainability farmers and hanging out with the hottest of the local girls while you’re in town…

Why aren’t you doing that?

Or, why aren’t you doing the thing you need to be doing so that you can get to that thing you really want?

Or maybe you are three steps removed and you have to do the thing that leads you to the thing that you need to do first in order to eventually do the thing you want to do…

It’s all good! No matter where you are on your “Massive Throbbing Path With Heart”, if you are pursuing your dream, it’s attractive to her.

Need some help creating a life that is so fvcking compelling and adventurous and creative and powerful and healthy and joyful that you can hardly wait to wake up every morning and get to it?

Yeah I’ve got a course: How To Become The Man The Women You Want…Really Want.

Reality check:

The Masculine INITIATES, and leads. The Feminine Follows.

He never Pursues. Pursuing is NOT leading.

She pursues him. Become that man and she will become one of your women. I can help you become that guy if you are not yet there.

Why is this stuff such a secret? It’s all about power baby. As a group women like having the power of guys wanting them. All of the advertisers in the world know they can con men into spending money on women in order to “buy” their affection. It doesn’t get men affection but it gets women lots of cool stuff without having to pay for it. How many Ferrarri’s have been purchased (or leased for the day) in order to impress some woman? External status can be faked. The real deal inside you? Can’t.

Cowabungah!

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Still Searching for the One?

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32993444_sCowabungah Relationship Rant:

Why Searching For The “One” or “Mr. or Mrs. Right” is Not only Ridiculous… It’s literally REPULSIVElY idiotic and against our basic natures – both for men and women…

Back story: I’m on a number of email lists from various dating coaches… it’s always clear who the coach is coaching whether they are male or female dating coaches..

The Dating coaches for men help their clients to “Get Laid”

The Dating Coaches for women help their clients to “Find Mr. Right”.

I’ve noticed in particular on Match.com and other dating websites, certain women are increasingly almost harsh in their insistence on “Strict Monogamy”. A recent profile of one of the few women I found attractive on Match basically said, “don’t even email me if you are even thinking of seeing other women.” As if I should stop being interested in all other women before we even have a first fvcking date! Huh?

There is an increasingly pervasive cultural message that somehow there is something “wrong” with men who “can’t commit”. As if committing to one woman is the ultimate goal. As if having an active and healthy attraction for more than one woman is somehow “wrong” or even “sick”.

Sheesh!

So I’m on this email list of a coach I knew back in a previous place I used to live. She sends out an email today to her list of mostly women over 40 who all want this “one”.

Now, this dating coach is a woman who decided in her early 40’s, the time had come to “git her a husband.” So she went on a crash diet and lost 100 pounds and went into the dating arena as if it were a war to the death. She went on something like 100 dates until she at last found her “perfect Prince”…Somehow she was able to stay slender long enough for him to propose to her and get married. Of course she gained all the weight back once she had him the bag.

I met the guy. Totally pussy whipped, “low status” male. I could tell he was fucking miserable with her but was too afraid of his chances out on the “free market.” Safer just to live in quiet desperation being told what to do by his dominant wife…

Anyway, watch the video: I do one of my best “rants” ever! (And NO apologies for any marriage minded women who may watch this and not like what I have to say)

Cowabungah!

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Interview with Dating Coach Mike Covey

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mike-covey-interviewMy friend and NLP Student, Mike Covey shares some of his most recent dating successes after applying some of the Cowabungah Concepts and attitudes that we’ve been been installing in his unconscious mind over the last few months…

He’s taking a radically different approach to dating than the traditional “serial monogamy” that so many guys get trapped in, giving away their power, closing down their own pleasure and power in the sad attempt to get what they want in life…

The difference between men who THINK they know what they are doing with women and men who apply intelligent DEEP AWARENESS of what women actually want… and respond to…

Cowabungah!

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