The Better Man Project Episode 2 Love is NOT Logical Romantic attraction is NOT Logical. Particularly for women. Sometimes we guys get stuck in an old ineffective pattern of behavior around women. We try to convince them or "sell them" …
Approach Anxiety
How To Get Over Anxiety About A Boy or Girl
I had a good question from a sweet high school girl today about dealing with anxiety around MOTOS (Members of the opposite sex). Here's her question: Hi, Mark, my name is V. and I've been having problems with anxiety. My anxiety has …
Would You Be Willing
What would you be willing to do to stop being shy? Would you be willing to get messy? Would you be willing to make a fool of your self? Would you be willing to be wrong without beating yourself up for it? For example: Would you …
Overcoming Shyness Starts with Personal Mastery
In today's short video I explore why you can't just overcome your shyness and suddenly have all the women you want instantly. Once you overcome the internal belief that you are shy, then you have to actually build some skills and …
After You Stop Being Shy
In this video I explore a few thoughts about what has to happen after you stop being shy. Because once you stop being shy you still need to build skills. You need to learn the art of conversation, you have to learn how to move your body …
Overcoming Shyness With Women Starts In Your Mind
If you are a shy man who hesitates and gets stuck in fear or anxiety at the prospect of introducing yourself to women who you are attracted to, watch this video. The solution is between your ears! It's not the latest pick-up lines or …
It’s Not Just About Approach Anxiety
Ok. Scot Mckay, Author of“Deserve What You Want” and “The Engineer’s Guide To Being Cooler Than The Sales Guy” is on a freaking roll the last few days... Just like my last post, this one is inspired by one of Scot's newsletter …
Can Questions Stop Approach Anxiety?
I was reading a newsletter article this morning by Scott McKay, Author of "Deserve What You Want" and "The Engineer's Guide To Being Cooler Than The Sales Guy" which asked the question "Are you too safe?" Essentially he pointed out the …
Why Women AND Shy Men Have Approach Anxiety
A friend of mine just sent me a link to an article by a young woman who was "approached" abusively on the subway two different times in the same ride. I also had a conversation with some friends and a waitress last night about guys who hit …