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Overcoming Obstacles

Why You Will Fail to Have A Great Career

June 22, 2015 by Mark Shepard

I came across this fabulous “rant” by Larry Smith, University of Waterloo Economics Professor. Over the years he saw countless college students abandon their quest for a “great career” and settle for “safe”, “practical”, “reasonable”, “acceptable” choices that doomed them to lives of passionless drudgery.

Ultimately his TED talk is a call to “cowabungah”.

Pay attention. There will be a test…

If you have any thoughts or questions or subjects you would like me to reflect upon in future videos, click the button below and contact me today.

Let’s talk…

Filed Under: Dreams, Goal Setting, Hero Story, Keys To Cowabungah, Learning from mistakes, Overcoming Obstacles, Path with Heart - Massive Throbbing Vision

Power Tools For Life

June 12, 2015 by Mark Shepard

shovelsI was thinking a bit about  what it is I really do… and why I love it so much.

It comes down to this: I ultimately I help guys like you to discover and apply effective, elegant powerful solutions to the challenges in your life.

I help you to move through and MASTER whatever you are going to encounter on this journey…

I coach peak performers to take their intelligence, talent, curiosity, open mindedness and passion to the next level and beyond.

I also coach guys who know in their hearts that they too can be peak performers but haven’t been able to quite break through the prerequisite “obstacles” that seem insurmountable, but are really doors to power that CAN be unlocked with the right combination of tools, skills and attitudes.

What I love about that is this: If you can practice a few simple “modern Jedi mind tricks” on yourself, you can literally re-route your neurological patterns and behaviors and literally hypnotize yourself into Health, Wealth, Women and Power.

Today I’m calling them “POWER TOOLS FOR LIFE”

Can we be honest?

You can either keep attempting to be a peak performer using the tools you used as a kid to try to get the love you wanted, or you can take your game up to a higher level and really make some damn progress.

Toy tools vs. POWER TOOLS. hmmmm is there really a choice?

All the other “teachers” out there basically teach you the “what”.  Even the best of them will give you lists of things you “should” do to be successful.

Do “this” and “this” and “this” and you will be successful.

That’s all well and good. However, I teach you HOW to do those things that you “should” be doing.

Even better, I coach you HOW TO CONSISTENTLY MOTIVATE YOURSELF TO actually DO THOSE THINGS consistently, relentlessly, effectively, MASSIVELY. So you get the results you want in your life faster, easier, better, more sustainably.

You can know “What” to do all day long but unless you actually DO it. You are just spinning your wheels…

It’s like reading a book about driving a car vs. actually getting into the car with a brilliant racing teacher who knows not only HOW to drive, but HOW to teach YOU to drive.  Not only does he know the basics, the advanced mechanics and physics of driving but he can impart to you generations of strategic knowledge about how and when to APPLY the brakes or the accelerator…

AND this teacher is so passionate about driving that he has made it his life’s work. He has relinquished with full consciousness his childhood obsession with Basketball. Because he found this other calling to be higher and more profound in every way.

On his days off from teaching driving, he takes his own courses to improve his driving mastery as well as his teaching mastery. Maybe he races himself. Maybe he does off-road rallies… or time trials. Maybe he finds countless ways every single day to improve and expand his skill set and knowledge base…

Maybe he flies around the world to study the best Formula 1 drivers and to learn their mental secrets to their higher level of performance… He’s obsessed with a massive throbbing vision of what is possible mentally, physically in all areas of driving.

I once experienced a taxi driver in Rome who drove so elegantly, so gracefully that just watching his hands on the steering wheel was like watching an artist paint or a brilliant musician improvise. It was beautiful and inspiring. He did more than just drive people around Rome, he TRANSPORTED THEM.

That’s what this is all about. It’s about providing you with power tools and vehicles for personal mastery on a higher level of honesty, transparency and sheer joyful exhilaration than pretty much anyone else out there.

If.

If. YOU are open to it.

If. You’re ready for it.

If.  You’re willing to step up and put it into practice.

Not everybody’s ready for that and that’s ok. Not everybody notices that taxi driver in Rome being on a different level than all the others.

It takes a bit of a “Ninja” or “Jedi” mind-set. It takes a bit of a “Cowabungah” mind-set.

But you do get this.

And because you get it, I am inspired and motivated to take MY game to the next level every day in every way because I fucking love watching you CRUSH it in your world. I love watching action taking guys take their shit to the NEXT LEVEL OF AWESOME.

When you follow my coaching you get rapid and noticeable results. When you stay with me, you get encouragement and reinforcement that just won’t come from your friends and family.

They are threatened by your desire for greatness. I’m not. I often see a greater vision for my client than they are able to conjure up in their minds… But then the light comes on and it DAWNS on them that they truly are meant for greatness and it is only a few patterns and limiting beliefs that are stopping them. They walk out of the cage free.

I FUCKING LOVE THAT!

I worked with a client yesterday for 4 hours. Intense work. This is a guy who grew up in a crazy family. They were all alcoholics. He is pretty sure there was some pretty hideous abuse that his unconscious mind is repressing.

He came to be because he wakes up almost every night screaming in terror. It takes him a while to even realize that he isn’t being beaten or raped or whatever it was that went on back in his childhood…

Then his crazy family all sobered up by joining a conservative evangelical church. Which was crazy in the other extreme.

Eventually he managed to grow up and get away from his family of origin. But he’s now ostracized by his entire family because he left the “cult”.

So now what? He’s alone in the fucking world. He has a choice. Either move forward, work on his own personal healing and self mastery. Eventually he can create his own family of “choice”, people who support and encourage him. People who believe in him and never tear him down…

The alternative is to could go back to the herd and lose his spirit, his dream, his vision… His SOUL.

He’d been to all kinds of therapy before. Nothing helped. Nothing worked.

Within an hour of beginning to learn and apply some of my most powerful release tools, he “neutralized” the terror. Could NOT access it anymore. IT WAS LITERALLY DELETED from his neurological hard drive.

Now. It’s too soon to tell if that will totally clear the “night terrors”. But noticeable progress was made in a very short time frame.

He rolled up his sleeves fully applied what I was teaching. As a result he really “got” that my approach is totally different than all the other therapies or techniques or drugs or whatever “out there”.

He also got that I am a coach. I can teach you the tools. I can guide you in applying those tools. I can hold you accountable for using the tools. I can challenge and interrupt old beliefs and patterns of behavior that have kept you stuck.

But you know and accept and actually appreciate the fact that ultimately you are the ONE who applies the knowledge in your own life.

My job is not to fix you, but to empower you to…

  1. Realize you ain’t broken, celebrate how fucking awesome you actually are and what an actual Miracle YOUR VERY EXISTENCE IN THIS WORLD IS… considering the alternative.
  2. Take the intelligent action necessary to create a better reality for yourself.
  3. Repeat and reinforce your new way of perceiving and being in the world until it becomes your new default, your new habit of excellence, that you paid the price of admission to install in your own Mind…

Wherever you are, Doing whatever you are doing, struggling with whatever you are struggling with, isn’t it reassuring to know that you can shorten your learning curve, you can get to where you want to go faster, easier, better?

Here’s just a glimpse of what’s in the Cowabungah “POWER TOOLS” pipeline at the moment…

Master Your Mojo: How to Totally DESTROY Erectile Dysfunction or Performance Anxiety in the bedroom [finishing up the basic 16 module course this week. Watch your in box for when it’s ready to beta test]

Shy Guy Help: How to stop being shy with the women you really want [this is currently in beta test and is stupidly affordable. Check it out and give it a full test run. Your feedback will help me to make it truly the best course in it’s field on the planet]

Modern Jedi Mind Mastery: My full MASSIVE 9 day NLP and Hypnosis certification training For Men.

CRUSH Anxiety: How to stop anxiety without harmful drugs or endless therapy

Coming soon to a computer, phone or tablet near you:

Jedi Goal Setting: How to literally PROGRAM yourself to create the exact future you most desire

Persuasion Power: How to sell anything to anyone without being that obnoxious pushy, “Sales Guy.” IN fact using this body of power tools, you will FAR out-sell, out-perform the pushiest sales people on the planet.

It’s Not Just About The Food: How to get off the diet roller-coaster for good so you can get the energy and body you want. [this course is close to being launched. Initial Beta tests are done. Plus I actually lost 30 pounds and 2 pants sizes just teaching it! Another one of my beta testers lost 50 pounds]

So that’s what’s in my thoughts today, you badass, KING of Cowabungah! I’ve got to JUMP. Working with a top level Team Cowabungah guy in London by Skype in a few minutes.

Drop me a line if you have questions, comments or are ready for some SERIOUS progress on your MASSIVE THROBBING VISION for your life.

COWABUNGAH!

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Filed Under: Creating Change, Goal Setting, Keys To Cowabungah, NLP Techniques, Overcoming Obstacles, Path with Heart - Massive Throbbing Vision

Your Hero Story

June 9, 2015 by Mark Shepard

36880993_sToday I talk about your hero story.

This is the map from your past of how you actually deal with adversity or unacceptable situations in your life that you found a way to resolve. Chances are you have made powerful, significant change at some point in your life. You just did most of it unconsciously. Today we are going to explore the pattern of transformation that seems to be somewhat universal.

You have a problem. A stuck place. You keep attempting to resolve it but it snaps back into place like the “Rubber band theory” we talked about last week.

At some point you get serious. SOMETHING DIFFERENT MUST HAPPEN.

And that’s when your unconscious mind gets the message that the same old pattern is no longer acceptable.

It’s like the kid who kind of ignores the parents polite and gentle, loving tone of voice to “stay away from the neighbors vicious dogs”.

The kind parent explains, “those dogs could jump that fence. Do not tease them…”

The kid doesn’t really register the danger or the urgency of this message until…

The parent gets INTENSE about it.

Changes the tone of voice.  Gets in the kids face. Makes penetrating intense eye contact.

HEY! STAY AWAY FROM THOSE DOGS! I’M SERIOUS. WHAT DID I JUST SAY?

and the kid has to repeat it back.

This is NOT about shaming the kid. It is about communicating the IMPORTANCE of that message and making it STICK.

So within your hero story is that necessary intensity that you had to go through until you finally had enough and did the same thing with your “inner child” aka your Unconscious Mind.

If you like this and find it useful grab your spot here on Transformation Nation. We are intelligent men applying our brilliance intelligently to create MASSIVE, THROBBING success in all areas of our lives.

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Filed Under: Hero Story, Keys To Cowabungah, Overcoming Obstacles, Path with Heart - Massive Throbbing Vision

Intelligent Action

June 5, 2015 by Mark Shepard

In today’s in-depth “Rant”, Post, Declaration, monologue, training, coaching session, (whatever you want to call it), I go deep into the idea of not just holding your MASSIVE throbbing vision constantly on your mental movie screen, but actually beginning and continuing to take intelligent action towards it’s attainment.

Key To Cowabungah: Take Intelligent Sustained Action

It’s not until you actually leave home and begin a journey that you open yourself to the opportunities that will come your way along that “path with heart.” At points on every journey you may wonder what the hell you were thinking but hopefully you will by then be too far to turn back.

I climbed one of the high peaks in the Adirondack mountains last December with friend Mike Covey and his friend Brett. We started hiking at 7:30 in the morning and didn’t reach the summit until early afternoon. There we were met with vicious below zero winds that threatened to knock us on our asses… I took a brief glance at the view (which was incredible) but then turned and immediately started back down, cursing the crazy idea that had caused this 54 year old guy to climb a fvcking mountain with two guys in their mid twenties…

of course it got dark well before we got back to the car. The last couple of hours I was exhausted and sore and kind of pissed off that I had let these guys talk me into far more mountain than I really wanted to climb. But at the same time I affirmed to myself that, “You know, tomorrow I will be proud that I did this.” So that’s what I focused on. As well as focusing on getting back to the car safely and in one piece. So the mental part is crucial. But the visioning MUST be accompanied by intelligent consistent action.

Self Motivated Action Tools

1. Focus on what you want.

Focus on arriving at your destination. But then put one foot in front of the other until you get there. Appreciate every detour and challenge on this path as an opportunity to take your shit to the next level.

Looking back from your death bed you will be glad that you took the opportunity to actually LIVE.

2.  Ask yourself empowering Why and How Questions.

This forces your Unconscious Mind to begin to build “evidence procedures”, new beliefs and even convictions that support the presuppositions in the question. The one I suggest in the video is “Why is this Perfect?” You do not have to consciously answer the question. Just ask it repeatedly and your Unconscious Mind will do the rest. With each step coming down off that mountain near the end of my endurance, I literally counted my footsteps and chanted, “Why is this perfect?” as well as, “Why does this work out better than I can possibly imagine?”

3. Begin. Take Action. Keep going.

Reflect periodically to make sure you are still on the right path and how to do it better, more effectively, more enjoyably, more intelligently

If you have any thoughts or questions or subjects you would like me to reflect upon in future videos, click the button below and contact me today.

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Filed Under: Goal Setting, Keys To Cowabungah, Overcoming Obstacles, Path with Heart - Massive Throbbing Vision

The Rubber Band Effect

June 4, 2015 by Mark Shepard

or “Why Change Isn’t Always Easy”


Imagine a rubber band.

You stretch it. And while you are using your energy to keep it stretched, it stays stretched. But the moment you let go of your input of energy, it automatically returns to the way it normally is.

Because that is the nature of rubber bands we don’t usually get too upset by the fact that it pretty much does that until it breaks.

We accept that is the nature of rubber bands. Because we understand how they work, we can use them to serve our purposes.  Connecting things. Holding things. We can even use them to strengthen our muscles. We can shoot them across the room. We can collect them in a huge ball.

Because we understand them we work WITH their natural tendencies to spring back to their original size and shape.

Because our unconscious habits and patterns of behavior are deeply impressed into our neurology, using will power to force a change often results in the old pattern returning after you stop willing it.

We call that the “Rubber Band Effect”

Unfortunately people often get upset and frustrated that the changes they say they want to make don’t always “stay changed.”

But the real problem is that we do not consciously know how to “hook” the new behavior or pattern into the “matrix” of your unconscious mind so that it STAYS in the new pattern.

So today we are going to talk about the difference between “Will power” and “Intention.”

Will power comes from the conscious mind. In fact your conscious mind IS your WILL.

Intention is essentially a directive from the conscious mind that is installed into your unconscious mind. Your unconscious mind is your IMAGINATION.

Where there is a conflict between
your WILL and your IMAGINATION,
IMAGINATION always trumps WILL.

It’s kind of like Rock, Paper, Scissors.

Will power always fails because your conscious mind can not always be conscious of that one idea. You are constantly being distracted by other things and your conscious mind is only capable of being aware of what you are thinking about right now.

On the other hand, your unconscious mind can hold dozens, hundreds even thousands of processes all simultaneously... outside of your conscious awareness… kind of like my computer is running simultaneous programs in the background while I’m typing this.

For example. Right Now. You reading this, thinking about this. You might be thinking about the last time you tried to stop a negative habit or change a limiting belief. You might be wondering where I’m going with this article. You might be imagining the thing you would like to change about yourself, your bank account, your love life, your health. Whatever you are thinking about right now.

You are not thinking about your left pinky toe.

Except that now that I’ve focused your attention there, you ARE now thinking about your left pinky toe.

But the whole time leading up to me bringing “left pinky toe” into your consciousness, your unconscious mind was taking exquisite care of your entire body INCLUDING your little tiny toe.

Even though you were not consciously thinking about it, your Unconscious Mind was on the job.

So essentially, intention is the process of programming your unconscious mind to “install” the new goal, behavior, or neurological pattern into the fabric of what your unconscious mind takes care of without having to be reminded.

One way to install a new thing, is repetition and constant conscious reinforcement.

This is what most coaches, teachers, trainers and our education system uses by default. Repetition, repetition, repetition, and more repetition… It’s boring and inefficient which is why people often forget to repeat the new behavior or pattern…. and then…

Snap! They go right back to the old habits…

Sometimes something just gets powerfully installed instantly and stays “in” forever. Usually it is something negative like a phobia that gets installed. Most people with any kind of phobia think it just happened. But actually a phobia is a “One time learning event” where your unconscious mind so powerfully got the message to make a new program, that it happened instantly and unless something equally powerful and intense releases it, it will stay in your unconscious mind forever.

The key is engaging intensity of emotion… It should be no surprise that your unconscious mind is ALSO the seat of your emotions…

So in order to make a change and keep that change, you have to:

1. Know how your unconscious mind works so that you can work WITH it instead of AGAINST it.
2. Know how to set your conscious intention so that it is accepted by your unconscious mind
3. know how to fully engage the most powerful emotional intensity you can…

Once you understand these secrets, you can pretty much write your own ticket for positive change in your life.

30369940_sOnce you understand how to make changes and keep them, you can systematically stop doing the shit that stops you from being, doing and having what you want and START being, doing and having what you DO desire for your life, career, health, love life etc.

The beauty of NLP and Hypnosis as well as EFT and Time Line Therapy(tm) is that these essentially are tools that enable and empower you to do just that.

Want to learn more?

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Filed Under: Creating Change, Goal Setting, Healing, Keys To Cowabungah, NLP Techniques, Overcoming Obstacles

About that problem

May 19, 2015 by Mark Shepard

38817913_sKeys To Cowabungah: Problem Solving

Problems are a part of life.

Get good at solving them.

Get a life. Get the girl.

Ok. So you have a problem. Since this is a site all about personal mastery for men, and because one of our great “problems” as men is to be able to remove the obstacles (as well as clothing) that separates us from the women we desire,

Let’s explore a little bit about what a “problem” is and what to do about it.

Chances are there is some thing you do or don’t do that if you did or didn’t do it your life would be better.

Am I right?

Chances are there is some other person or people who seem to be the cause of problems too.

We will get to “dealing with difficult people” at some point, but today, let’s first talk about what this thing called a “problem” is. So we can make some progress with all levels of “problem” in your life.

So what’s a “problem”?

A “Problem” is:

The obstacle to your well being and happiness that you are currently concerned with or working on.

For you it could be “How to strike up a natural conversation with a group of bikini clad models so that one or more of them want to go home with you and have great sex…”

For mathmaticians, getting a nice big juicy “problem” is NOT a problem. It’s what they live for as math geeks.

For a gardener, keeping the deer and the rabbits and the woodchucks and the spider mites and aphids and cucumber beetles etc from eating YOUR plants before you get a chance to eat them is a problem…

Gardeners may gripe and moan about that but it is the nature of the activity to have challenges to your success. Your purpose is to solve them and then maximize your yield. If you don’t like doing that. Stop gardening. Gardening also involves something called “work”. Lifting bags of soil. Digging holes, building raised beds, weeding, watering, even HARVESTING can be a drag…. unless you realize that it is part of a process that is thoroughly enjoyable.

For many guys the obstacle to their happiness and well being is their inability to attract and land the kind of woman that they THINK they want to fuck… or live with… or whatever it is they think they want…

Notice I said “think they want”. You want a hot 10 babe-licious woman because you think having her will make you happy. You imagine fucking her and it being great…

But most of the time you just sit there frozen with fear and she goes home with some total asshole because he wasn’t intimidated by her hotness…. And you? You end up jerking off to porn. So you “solve the problem” of your sexual desire the easiest way. Without risking anything or learning anything. That’s a bit like the wannabe gardener buying some little cactus at walmart and thinking he’s a master gardener.

But ultimately EVERY problem carries with it the OPPORTUNITY for greatness…

But when we get upset at our challenges or when things don’t go the way we THINK they SHOULD go. We create suffering.

Suffering sucks. Stop it! Start asking yourself THIS question: “What if THIS “problem” is PERFECT?” “What if this is my “JEDI” warrior’s challenge?”

I have a couple of guy friends that are in relationships. They got in to those relationships to solve the problem of their loneliness and desire for physical intimacy. Most likely their women got in to those relationships to solve similar problems… or to find a good father for their children. Whatever. They may have solved one problem but they created the next level of opportunity for growth.

You see, whatever we do, we are attempting to remove obstacles to our well being and happiness… which often works for a little while until the “solution” becomes the “problem”. Then we have to solve the new problem and when we do, quite often the pattern repeats. That is life.

This is all supposed to happen! Because if it didn’t we would be bored as fuck. The next step is to find a way to resolve the obstacle to happiness in as elegant and congruent a way as possible. To solve the equation in as deep and wide and ecological way as humanly possible…

For example: In my garden. I moved to this new place last June. I had already started greens, cucumbers and tomatoes in pots at my previous apartment. So I moved them to my new location and BAM! The damn rabbits and wood chucks hit me HARD. So to solve that problem, I could have started killing them, OR I could simply put the damn pots up on tables. Which I did. problem solved.

UNTIL the deer came through one night and hit a bunch more of them… The tables saved them the hassle of bending down… Solution? First I tried some deer spray shit… which didn’t work that well. Then I built a corral of chairs and empty bins around my garden… worked pretty we’ll… But not perfectly… so after some deep thought and imagining, this year I have built a deer fence.

Is the problem solved? It might. But certainly something else will arise to keep me interested.

I would like to add, that since my solution to the rabbits and woodchucks was putting stuff up on tables, now I do not have to bend over to weed or harvest my veggies. The solution to one “problem” solved another one… That’s ELEGANCE in the solution business…

The problem with “Problems” is that we solve them and then idiotically think they will STAY SOLVED.

Perhaps THAT is the real “problem”?

Quite often the problem is us. Why am I even bothering to garden when I can just get food at the grocery store?

Because IT MAKES ME HAPPY AND FILLS ME WITH WELL BEING… to walk out and pick my own fresh food. I LIKE getting a good work out doing actual work that benefits me in ways other than just exercise. Again. An elegant solution.

Ultimately that is what we are doing ALL THE FUCKING TIME! Attempting to keep ourselves happy and in a state of feeling good.

So this is where innovation comes in. Last year I got hit by animals on the ground and deer at waist height… one solution is to grow stuff on top of my trailer or behind my new deer fence.

This is the story of EVERYTHING. Look around at all the cool shit we have. Cars. Cell phones. Computers. The invention of cars caused a lot of problems.

The shitty dirt roads that were fine for horses and walking suddenly were a problem for going fast. And going fast was a problem to the soft mushy bodies we live in so we had to have safer roads and safer cars…

Then the damn things burned up too much gasoline so we had to have cars that were fuel efficient… and driving was so boring and safe that we needed rumble strips on the sides and in the middle so if we fell asleep at the wheel, we would get woken up by the rumble noise…

Do you see how this works?

Now let’s talk about you. Let’s talk about your “problem”.

Let’s say it’s approach anxiety. You see a pretty girl and you want to fuck her. But you can’t just see a pretty girl and AUTOMATICALLY have her walk over to you lift up her skirt and climb on to your hard dick…

Wouldn’t THAT be cool?

Not going to fucking happen. right?

If it would make you happy to be able to fuck her whenever you want, you are going to have to solve some pretty cool problems. The cool thing is every one of these problems that you must solve will make you a way better man, a better lover and more likely to be able to attract better and better women.

“Problem”: Somehow you have to go from noticing her hotness, her attractiveness to getting up off your ass and walking over to her and letting her know you exist. Because guaranteed, if she is as hot as you say, plenty of other guys have noticed her and many of them don’t have your problem of being shy. So you could focus on “getting over your shyness”. You can practice thinking and acting like a guy who has actual balls and confidence. That’s pretty cool. Or, perhaps there is an even more elegant solution? Like beginning to think and act like the kind of guy who WOMEN CHECK OUT AND COME OVER AND INTRODUCE THEMSELVES TO…

For example, I went on a few dates with this woman who was really into dogs. She told me that at a dog show she actually tripped and fell right at actor Kevin Bacon’s feet. He was duly impressed. “I’ve had women do a lot of things to try to meet me,” he said with a sly smile, “But THAT was really putting your all into it!”

They had a nice laugh about that, what we call a “Moment” and because he is a married man, nothing else came of it…

BUT WHAT IF?!

What if YOU walked around with that same kind of “Kevin Bacon” attitude, using ANYTHING that happens with women, ANY interaction to make challenging comments with a sly wink?

And a little side comment here: Notice that Kevin Bacon was at a dog obedience event. Even though he’s a famous actor, he actually leaves his house to go out in public and do shit he is interested in. Get it? He leaves his house and goes out into the world to do shit that is INTERESTING TO HIM.

Hint: Women find men who are out in the world pursuing their “path” to be attractive. Guys who live in their parents basement and play video games all the time are not. If you have no interests. Fucking get some.

Now back to the main THRUST of our little talk…

What if in your own mind YOU were a star? What if in your own mind you were a catch? You were to women what that hot 20 something babe is to men?

What if you were the guy who walks into a room and all the women NOTICE… What if YOU are the guy they fantasize about being with?

What would life be like then?

Who would be happy and fulfilled then?

“But wait!” you protest. “I’m NOT a movie star!”

OK, so the real problem is that you don’t think you are good enough to fuck hot women. So you therefore give away all your power to the pussy…

Perhaps my friend THAT is your “real” “problem”. You put pretty women up on pedestals and therefore lower your own value in relationship to theirs. That’s just another opportunity isn’t it?

What if I could teach you how to powerfully install a new program in your mind. Let’s call it the “Kevin Bacon” or “the [cool actor of your choice] program”.

I mean Kevin Bacon is a decent actor. But he’s not exactly considered the greatest actor of all time. Yet women throw themselves at him…

He is famous. But so what? There are a lot of guys who are not famous but who THINK like the kind of guy who is. Who walk like they are hot shit. Who challenge and tease women. Who put themselves higher on a pedestal than she is.

What if you installed deep in your unconscious mind this little notion: “Any woman would be fortunate to have the opportunity to be with me.” and all the variations of that. “Any woman would be fortunate to have the opportunity to talk to me…”

What if you walked around broadcasting that idea with your body language, your voice tonality, your attitude? What if you actually and totally BELIEVED it yourself? Really believe it. Deep in your Unconscious Mind. You are that guy. What would that be like?

The bottom line my friend is that when you solve this little “problem” you will have ample opportunity to solve many other delicious challenges like, “now that I’ve fucked her and she’s addicted to my cock, how do I get rid of her so I can continue to fuck other women too?” or even better: “Now that she’s addicted to my cock, how can I frame our relating so that I can ethically and honestly continue to fuck other women too?”

All of that to bring you to the point of the day which is:

What if solving this “problem” (and any other “problem” that may arise) is actually the reason you are here in this little space ship called a “body” in the first place?

What if the thrill of solving this problem was more interesting and fulfilling than any TV show, movie or video game? What if YOU ARE THE STAR of this movie called your life?

Personal mastery is about rising to the challenges and joyfully solving the “problems” that are the keys to you developing new and better levels of mastery.

Are you in?

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A few testimonials…

I can’t thank you enough!

“I want to thank you for EVERYTHING you did for me! Ran the 48.6 miles last weekend. That is huge as when I first saw you I couldn’t even run outdoors without anxiety. I can’t thank you enough!”

John B.

Leaving my fears in the dust…

“It is a journey and Mark has shared a lot of great, drug free techniques that I intend to KEEP practicing as I leave my fears in the dust once and for all.”

Cheryl

Very helpful…

“The information you are providing in the “CRUSH anxiety NOW!” course is very helpful. Thanks, Mark! BTW, I love your music, too. :-)”

Beth P.

Makes it easy to understand…

“Oh man Mark. This is what I needed today. You explain things so well that makes it easy to understand. You my friend are awesome at what you do. Thank you, thank you, thank you!”

Linda

The program is so powerful and energetic…

“Mark provided a lot of information and tools to help me in weight loss and in all areas of my life. The program is so powerful and energetic. The camaraderie you encourage is extremely beneficial.”

Ann B.

Thank you so much for all of your help!

“Dear Mr. Shepard, I killed it with my speech yesterday, so thank you so much for all of your help! And thank you for adding me into the Bully Proof Teen group. I’ve been bullied myself as well so this is a good place for me to learn more. I will definitely take advantage of it. Don’t ever stop doing what you are doing!”

Hasen Khiar

I’ve been applying the techniques…

“Thank you Mark! I’ve been applying the techniques you taught us last week, and DAMN, it seems to be working already (but I’m not positive yet). I also wanted to tell you that I think you’ve got a real winner in your ‘Rain’ song. Ever since I heard it, I can’t get it out of my head! You’re the Best!”

Kate

Anxiety is GONE!

“Oh my god… when you said ‘now where’s the anxiety?’ it gave me the biggest grin I’ve had in a long time… ‘cuz it was GONE! This is genius! You’re a genius sir!”

Jay

Honest and compassionate…

“I loved all the ‘transformation tools.’ I use them every day. I feel positive – self love. Mark worked hard and really cares about us. …very giving – honest and compassionate – thank you!”

Susan C.

I’ve been regularly using your breathing techniques…

“Hi Mark, I’ve been regularly using your breathing techniques and positive ‘why’ questions. I also bought your song ‘Arise Arise’ as it seems to really help when nervous.”

Jason

You are a ROCKSTAR!

“Thank you for your work, Mark! You are a ROCKSTAR! The best kind. Full of love and life!”

Leslie M. Thornton

Haven’t felt this good for a long time…

“I haven’t felt this good for a long time and it’s a great feeling. I just wanted to say thank you so much and I really appreciate all your help.”

Kent

Panic attacks gone for good…

“When I woke up this morning I was thinking about my panic attacks. I could not remember that last time I had one! I used the techniques in your CRUSH Anxiety Program. Thank you so much for all your help.”

Robin

A miracle!

“Mark’s intensive phobia-releasing session CURED me. The ‘trigger’ no longer causes me to shake and tremble. That’s a miracle! The healing affected more than just me.”

A. Hart

Already feel better!

“Hey, finished watching the Mojo course last night, great stuff. I already feel better!”

Todd

Already noticing huge progress!

“I have really enjoyed watching all of your videos, and I am already noticing huge progress! I go through all of your recommended self-hypnosis on a daily basis and notice improvement each day.”

Chris

Excellent customer service

“Excellent customer service. Thanks a lot!!!!!!”

Luis C.

Used your courses to great effect…

“I’ve used your Shy Guy Help and ED courses to great effect, thank you!”

Ian

One day I just stopped wanting all the sweets…

“It wasn’t an ‘instant’ fix. It took a little while but one day I just stopped wanting all the sweets that I used to crave. Now I’m drinking more water and loving my body more.”

Kay F.

Experienced a total transformation…

“I went online and logged in to your course How To Get Over A Breakup and experienced a total transformation.”

Paula

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