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Power Tools For Life

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shovelsI was thinking a bit about  what it is I really do… and why I love it so much.

It comes down to this: I ultimately I help guys like you to discover and apply effective, elegant powerful solutions to the challenges in your life.

I help you to move through and MASTER whatever you are going to encounter on this journey…

I coach peak performers to take their intelligence, talent, curiosity, open mindedness and passion to the next level and beyond.

I also coach guys who know in their hearts that they too can be peak performers but haven’t been able to quite break through the prerequisite “obstacles” that seem insurmountable, but are really doors to power that CAN be unlocked with the right combination of tools, skills and attitudes.

What I love about that is this: If you can practice a few simple “modern Jedi mind tricks” on yourself, you can literally re-route your neurological patterns and behaviors and literally hypnotize yourself into Health, Wealth, Women and Power.

Today I’m calling them “POWER TOOLS FOR LIFE”

Can we be honest?

You can either keep attempting to be a peak performer using the tools you used as a kid to try to get the love you wanted, or you can take your game up to a higher level and really make some damn progress.

Toy tools vs. POWER TOOLS. hmmmm is there really a choice?

All the other “teachers” out there basically teach you the “what”.  Even the best of them will give you lists of things you “should” do to be successful.

Do “this” and “this” and “this” and you will be successful.

That’s all well and good. However, I teach you HOW to do those things that you “should” be doing.

Even better, I coach you HOW TO CONSISTENTLY MOTIVATE YOURSELF TO actually DO THOSE THINGS consistently, relentlessly, effectively, MASSIVELY. So you get the results you want in your life faster, easier, better, more sustainably.

You can know “What” to do all day long but unless you actually DO it. You are just spinning your wheels…

It’s like reading a book about driving a car vs. actually getting into the car with a brilliant racing teacher who knows not only HOW to drive, but HOW to teach YOU to drive.  Not only does he know the basics, the advanced mechanics and physics of driving but he can impart to you generations of strategic knowledge about how and when to APPLY the brakes or the accelerator…

AND this teacher is so passionate about driving that he has made it his life’s work. He has relinquished with full consciousness his childhood obsession with Basketball. Because he found this other calling to be higher and more profound in every way.

On his days off from teaching driving, he takes his own courses to improve his driving mastery as well as his teaching mastery. Maybe he races himself. Maybe he does off-road rallies… or time trials. Maybe he finds countless ways every single day to improve and expand his skill set and knowledge base…

Maybe he flies around the world to study the best Formula 1 drivers and to learn their mental secrets to their higher level of performance… He’s obsessed with a massive throbbing vision of what is possible mentally, physically in all areas of driving.

I once experienced a taxi driver in Rome who drove so elegantly, so gracefully that just watching his hands on the steering wheel was like watching an artist paint or a brilliant musician improvise. It was beautiful and inspiring. He did more than just drive people around Rome, he TRANSPORTED THEM.

That’s what this is all about. It’s about providing you with power tools and vehicles for personal mastery on a higher level of honesty, transparency and sheer joyful exhilaration than pretty much anyone else out there.

If.

If. YOU are open to it.

If. You’re ready for it.

If.  You’re willing to step up and put it into practice.

Not everybody’s ready for that and that’s ok. Not everybody notices that taxi driver in Rome being on a different level than all the others.

It takes a bit of a “Ninja” or “Jedi” mind-set. It takes a bit of a “Cowabungah” mind-set.

But you do get this.

And because you get it, I am inspired and motivated to take MY game to the next level every day in every way because I fucking love watching you CRUSH it in your world. I love watching action taking guys take their shit to the NEXT LEVEL OF AWESOME.

When you follow my coaching you get rapid and noticeable results. When you stay with me, you get encouragement and reinforcement that just won’t come from your friends and family.

They are threatened by your desire for greatness. I’m not. I often see a greater vision for my client than they are able to conjure up in their minds… But then the light comes on and it DAWNS on them that they truly are meant for greatness and it is only a few patterns and limiting beliefs that are stopping them. They walk out of the cage free.

I FUCKING LOVE THAT!

I worked with a client yesterday for 4 hours. Intense work. This is a guy who grew up in a crazy family. They were all alcoholics. He is pretty sure there was some pretty hideous abuse that his unconscious mind is repressing.

He came to be because he wakes up almost every night screaming in terror. It takes him a while to even realize that he isn’t being beaten or raped or whatever it was that went on back in his childhood…

Then his crazy family all sobered up by joining a conservative evangelical church. Which was crazy in the other extreme.

Eventually he managed to grow up and get away from his family of origin. But he’s now ostracized by his entire family because he left the “cult”.

So now what? He’s alone in the fucking world. He has a choice. Either move forward, work on his own personal healing and self mastery. Eventually he can create his own family of “choice”, people who support and encourage him. People who believe in him and never tear him down…

The alternative is to could go back to the herd and lose his spirit, his dream, his vision… His SOUL.

He’d been to all kinds of therapy before. Nothing helped. Nothing worked.

Within an hour of beginning to learn and apply some of my most powerful release tools, he “neutralized” the terror. Could NOT access it anymore. IT WAS LITERALLY DELETED from his neurological hard drive.

Now. It’s too soon to tell if that will totally clear the “night terrors”. But noticeable progress was made in a very short time frame.

He rolled up his sleeves fully applied what I was teaching. As a result he really “got” that my approach is totally different than all the other therapies or techniques or drugs or whatever “out there”.

He also got that I am a coach. I can teach you the tools. I can guide you in applying those tools. I can hold you accountable for using the tools. I can challenge and interrupt old beliefs and patterns of behavior that have kept you stuck.

But you know and accept and actually appreciate the fact that ultimately you are the ONE who applies the knowledge in your own life.

My job is not to fix you, but to empower you to…

  1. Realize you ain’t broken, celebrate how fucking awesome you actually are and what an actual Miracle YOUR VERY EXISTENCE IN THIS WORLD IS… considering the alternative.
  2. Take the intelligent action necessary to create a better reality for yourself.
  3. Repeat and reinforce your new way of perceiving and being in the world until it becomes your new default, your new habit of excellence, that you paid the price of admission to install in your own Mind…

Wherever you are, Doing whatever you are doing, struggling with whatever you are struggling with, isn’t it reassuring to know that you can shorten your learning curve, you can get to where you want to go faster, easier, better?

Here’s just a glimpse of what’s in the Cowabungah “POWER TOOLS” pipeline at the moment…

Master Your Mojo: How to Totally DESTROY Erectile Dysfunction or Performance Anxiety in the bedroom [finishing up the basic 16 module course this week. Watch your in box for when it’s ready to beta test]

Shy Guy Help: How to stop being shy with the women you really want [this is currently in beta test and is stupidly affordable. Check it out and give it a full test run. Your feedback will help me to make it truly the best course in it’s field on the planet]

Modern Jedi Mind Mastery: My full MASSIVE 9 day NLP and Hypnosis certification training For Men.

CRUSH Anxiety: How to stop anxiety without harmful drugs or endless therapy

Coming soon to a computer, phone or tablet near you:

Jedi Goal Setting: How to literally PROGRAM yourself to create the exact future you most desire

Persuasion Power: How to sell anything to anyone without being that obnoxious pushy, “Sales Guy.” IN fact using this body of power tools, you will FAR out-sell, out-perform the pushiest sales people on the planet.

It’s Not Just About The Food: How to get off the diet roller-coaster for good so you can get the energy and body you want. [this course is close to being launched. Initial Beta tests are done. Plus I actually lost 30 pounds and 2 pants sizes just teaching it! Another one of my beta testers lost 50 pounds]

So that’s what’s in my thoughts today, you badass, KING of Cowabungah! I’ve got to JUMP. Working with a top level Team Cowabungah guy in London by Skype in a few minutes.

Drop me a line if you have questions, comments or are ready for some SERIOUS progress on your MASSIVE THROBBING VISION for your life.

COWABUNGAH!

If you have any thoughts or questions or subjects you would like me to reflect upon in future videos, click the button below and contact me today.

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Sexual Shame In Men

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31329260_sIt’s probably not the most popular subject for a men’s blog.

Sexual shame.

Isn’t that something women have?

If you have invested any time or effort attempting to understand women, you have to acknowledge that our culture has a MASSIVE double standard that women have to dance to sexually speaking.

On the one hand the media pumps out all this “sexy woman” content in order to grab our attention and get us to buy shit.

And it works. Click. Whir. Buzz. Ding. Cha-ching…

On the other hand women are more afraid of being called “sluts” than pretty much anything else.

So we have a culture that glorifies sex and denies it at the same time.

As far as we men go there is another double standard. If we are too obviously sexual we are treated as sexual stalkers and creeps. If we tone that side of ourselves down we get dumped into the “friend zone.”

As an NLP Practitioner working with men, I get a lot of highly intelligent, caring, loving, talented, passionate, guys who at some point in their lives got tangled up in some level of sexual shame. Unfortunately it usually manifests as “Performance Anxiety” or “Erectile Dysfunction. ” Sometimes it can result in extreme shyness or social anxiety.

(If this is you, you definitely need to check out my new course, “Master Your Mojo”. It will help you kick the ass of sexual shame and get back to  your birthright as a sexual god.)

But while women get a lot of social support for sexual trauma (as well as a lot of sympathy), we men usually keep our mouths shut and just suffer in silence.

In fact one of the tragic things about male sexual shame is that guys often will not talk about it even with the women they are in relationships with (if they even get that far).

I had a client not too long ago who was literally shamed as an adult by a woman who was pretty insensitive and downright humiliating. He eventually got away from her (be on the look out for my new course, “Break Up Like A Man”) but with his current girlfriend he just kept avoiding sex and she was starting to express dismay and frustration. I was astonished that he didn’t just talk to her about it. No.

He just kept avoiding the whole thing like the classic “Elephant in the Room” that no one mentions.

I have seen this pattern repeatedly in my practice. Guys keep what’s really going on for them to themselves. This frustrates their women even more than not being pounded by a hard penis. After all, there are a ton of ways to satisfy a woman sexually besides the classic penis in vagina program.

So no matter what may have happened in your childhood or teens or whenever, the only way out of the trap of self imposed misery is to actually talk about the problem. But we don’t want to just talk about it ad nauseum because like most forms of anxiety, re-hashing the problem usually reinforces it and makes it worse.

So first of all, we want to mostly talk about how natural and normal our sexual feelings and desires are… to ourselves.

That’s right.

There needs to be a shift in your own belief system so that you can dump the old belief that you have “sexual problems” and install a new more powerful belief that, you are a naturally and profoundly sexual being and it is your birthright to bring your sexual gifts to your woman (or women). AND that women are also naturally and profoundly sexual beings and it is their birthright to receive your gifts where and when appropriate. Mutual consent between caring adults is beautiful.

The next step once you cut yourself some slack is to open up to your woman about what is really going on with you. 99 times out of 100 the problem is between your ears NOT your legs and it is temporary. Every man at some point will experience a time when he wants to perform but the “little brother” is not in the mood. Stop dreading it and shaming yourself for it. It happens to ALL of us.

The good news is it is NOT  a FAILURE. It is an OPPORTUNITY.

When guys open up to their partners about their sexual trauma or anxiety, their women typically open up their hearts (and arms and legs) as well.

This is not about becoming a whiny complainer, or attempting to manipulate her into feeling sorry for you. No. It’s just a simple, “hey, I’ve had some trauma in this area and I wonder if we can talk about it so that we can open our hearts and move past it”

No woman on this planet who is worth being with would EVER turn down that opportunity.

Ultimately it is in your greatest vulnerability as a man that your greatest potential for virility and empowerment comes.

Once this “Cat is out of the bag”, there is nothing to be afraid of. You can relax. She can relax. And usually great sex follows.

It helps to have a massive throbbing arsenal of powerful mind mastery tools at your disposal as well. In “Master Your Mojo”, sexually adventurous, action taking members of Transformation Nation are discovering how to interrupt negative states and literally install peak performance sexual states into their own neurology so that they can instantly trigger the appropriate physiological response… Erect. Rock Hard. Massive. Pleasure.

AND what’s even better, once you understand how to do this for yourself, you can literally anchor HER peak sexual states as well so you can fire up her furnace of desire faster, easier better… whenever you want…

So my friend. If you have ever experienced any kind of sexual shame or trauma, it is NOT the death sentence to your love life that you have been fearing. It could very well be the opportunity to plunge deeper into the magnificence that is you being the man of YOUR dreams… attracting and bedding the women of your dreams.

If you have any thoughts or questions or subjects you would like me to reflect upon in future videos, click the button below and contact me today.

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The Rubber Band Effect

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or “Why Change Isn’t Always Easy”


Imagine a rubber band.

You stretch it. And while you are using your energy to keep it stretched, it stays stretched. But the moment you let go of your input of energy, it automatically returns to the way it normally is.

Because that is the nature of rubber bands we don’t usually get too upset by the fact that it pretty much does that until it breaks.

We accept that is the nature of rubber bands. Because we understand how they work, we can use them to serve our purposes.  Connecting things. Holding things. We can even use them to strengthen our muscles. We can shoot them across the room. We can collect them in a huge ball.

Because we understand them we work WITH their natural tendencies to spring back to their original size and shape.

Because our unconscious habits and patterns of behavior are deeply impressed into our neurology, using will power to force a change often results in the old pattern returning after you stop willing it.

We call that the “Rubber Band Effect”

Unfortunately people often get upset and frustrated that the changes they say they want to make don’t always “stay changed.”

But the real problem is that we do not consciously know how to “hook” the new behavior or pattern into the “matrix” of your unconscious mind so that it STAYS in the new pattern.

So today we are going to talk about the difference between “Will power” and “Intention.”

Will power comes from the conscious mind. In fact your conscious mind IS your WILL.

Intention is essentially a directive from the conscious mind that is installed into your unconscious mind. Your unconscious mind is your IMAGINATION.

Where there is a conflict between
your WILL and your IMAGINATION,
IMAGINATION always trumps WILL.

It’s kind of like Rock, Paper, Scissors.

Will power always fails because your conscious mind can not always be conscious of that one idea. You are constantly being distracted by other things and your conscious mind is only capable of being aware of what you are thinking about right now.

On the other hand, your unconscious mind can hold dozens, hundreds even thousands of processes all simultaneously... outside of your conscious awareness… kind of like my computer is running simultaneous programs in the background while I’m typing this.

For example. Right Now. You reading this, thinking about this. You might be thinking about the last time you tried to stop a negative habit or change a limiting belief. You might be wondering where I’m going with this article. You might be imagining the thing you would like to change about yourself, your bank account, your love life, your health. Whatever you are thinking about right now.

You are not thinking about your left pinky toe.

Except that now that I’ve focused your attention there, you ARE now thinking about your left pinky toe.

But the whole time leading up to me bringing “left pinky toe” into your consciousness, your unconscious mind was taking exquisite care of your entire body INCLUDING your little tiny toe.

Even though you were not consciously thinking about it, your Unconscious Mind was on the job.

So essentially, intention is the process of programming your unconscious mind to “install” the new goal, behavior, or neurological pattern into the fabric of what your unconscious mind takes care of without having to be reminded.

One way to install a new thing, is repetition and constant conscious reinforcement.

This is what most coaches, teachers, trainers and our education system uses by default. Repetition, repetition, repetition, and more repetition… It’s boring and inefficient which is why people often forget to repeat the new behavior or pattern…. and then…

Snap! They go right back to the old habits…

Sometimes something just gets powerfully installed instantly and stays “in” forever. Usually it is something negative like a phobia that gets installed. Most people with any kind of phobia think it just happened. But actually a phobia is a “One time learning event” where your unconscious mind so powerfully got the message to make a new program, that it happened instantly and unless something equally powerful and intense releases it, it will stay in your unconscious mind forever.

The key is engaging intensity of emotion… It should be no surprise that your unconscious mind is ALSO the seat of your emotions…

So in order to make a change and keep that change, you have to:

1. Know how your unconscious mind works so that you can work WITH it instead of AGAINST it.
2. Know how to set your conscious intention so that it is accepted by your unconscious mind
3. know how to fully engage the most powerful emotional intensity you can…

Once you understand these secrets, you can pretty much write your own ticket for positive change in your life.

30369940_sOnce you understand how to make changes and keep them, you can systematically stop doing the shit that stops you from being, doing and having what you want and START being, doing and having what you DO desire for your life, career, health, love life etc.

The beauty of NLP and Hypnosis as well as EFT and Time Line Therapy(tm) is that these essentially are tools that enable and empower you to do just that.

Want to learn more?

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