Ever wonder why the obnoxious, pushy jerks seem to have no problem getting hot women?
While you – kind, sensitive, caring, intelligent (maybe even talented beyond belief) but “shy” or “nice guy” end up always being put into the “friend” category? –
That’s if you’re lucky to even show up on her awareness radar…
It’s because you CARE. huh?
This came as a huge shock to me because I was raised to be kind and caring. But the reality is that hot women have “kind and caring” guys following them around like puppy dogs all the time. They actually LIKE the jerks because the jerks are immune to being jerked around by women….
Do you see what I mean?
NOT LOGICAL. NOT LOGICAL. Well. Women are NOT logical. Something to remember ok? In fact you’re not so logical either but that’s a subject for another day.
In fact as a shy guy, you actually have a secret weapon. I get emails all the time from women wanting me to help them understand the shy guy they are all hot and bothered about.
The fact that he doesn’t look at them or talk to them or chase after them has them all a-quiver… “he said hi to me once but now he won’t look at me… How do I break the ice and get him to call me?” “Should I call him?” “What’s he thinking about? Is he thinking about me?”
In some way the shy guy can have the same effect as the “jerk”! She is all flustered about him. And the cool thing is that this “shy guy” may be so insecure and so worried about what other people are thinking that he may not even be aware that SHE IS HOT FOR HIM!
So this week’s opportunity challenge for you is….
1. Stop caring so much about what other people (particularly women) think.
Easy to say huh?
But seriously, try this: Shrink them down in your mind on your mental movie screen so they are really tiny. Or, see them as little girls who are just so silly. Too silly to take seriously.
In fact they might even be downright annoying.
2. Pretend you’re playing the role of a shy guy in a movie.
It’s an act.
At the end of the day the director yells “CUT” you get to step out of the shy guy role and become a hot, studly movie star again. But BECAUSE you know how to do it, you can use it to lure chicks in and get them to ask YOU out!
3. Notice that there are gazillions of women all around you. Start saying “hi” to them.
Just say “Hi” and then start to say something else, but half way through the first word, interrupt your self and walk away. Trusy me, she’ll be intrigued about what you were going to say…
Tired of being clobbered by shyness around the women you’d most like to get to know?
Or if you want a bunch of awesome techniques to approach, pick up and seduce women (that you’ll probably never use until you overcome shyness first).
Got questions? I have answers and I want you to have them, so…