In order to overcome shyness around women, we first have to get a bit more specific.
Is it shyness around ALL women?
Or is it just shyness around single, attractive young women?
Are there some circumstances where you are around a hot woman and don’t feel shyness? Or is the mere presence of an attractive girl enough to freeze you like a deer in the headlights of an oncoming semi truck?
The first thing you need to realize is that…
Shyness is a BEHAVIOR, not a DISEASE
There is no blood test for “shyness” or “Social Phobia” or “Social Anxiety” or whatever labels the drug pushing pharmaceutical companies have slapped on this behavior to try to sell us drugs.
The next thing you need to realize is…
Shyness is a LEARNED BEHAVIOR
At some point you hid behind your mother’s dress in the grocery store and someone said, “oh is he SHY? HOW cuuuuuuute!” and your little 3 year old mind just sucked that in. Later when you started liking girls you added a whole lot of other layers of fear, self criticism, judgement and plain confused adolescent hormonal baggage to that “identity.”
But you LEARNED it. All of it.
If shyness is NOT a Disease and if shyness is a LEARNED BEHAVIOR, then, you are NOT stuck with it and you CAN learn new behaviors that will result in overcoming shyness.
Tired of being clobbered by shyness around the women you’d most like to get to know?
How to stop being shy around beautiful women
Or if you want a bunch of awesome techniques to approach, pick up and seduce women that you’ll probably never use… (until you overcome shyness).
Got questions? I have answers and I want you to have them, so…
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