How To Tell If You’re A Shy Guy

July 20, 2010 by Mark Shepard

How To Tell If You’re A Shy Guy

I did a bunch of really short videos yesterday addressing the question of “How Do You Know You’re A Shy Guy…

Here are a few of the indicators I came up with… let me know if you have any of your own. I tried to keep it humorous and a bit light since one of the best ways to break through any old pattern is to interrupt it with laughter and a change of attitude. I know this is a source of great pain to many, many shy men as it was to me at one time, so please take this as intended okay?

You know you’re a Shy Guy if…

You’re 40 years old and still a virgin
You’re 30 years old and still a virgin
You’re over 20 and still a virgin…

You know you’re a Shy Guy if…

Whenever an attractive woman walks in the room you look down, up, right, left, anywhere but at her

You know you’re a Shy Guy if…

You happen to glance in the direction of a woman’s impressive cleavage and she notices you notcing and you notice her noticing you noticing and you want to die of embarrassment

You know you’re a Shy Guy if…

Even thinking about the woman of your dreams causes you to get a HUGE…………………………………………………………………………………..
……………………………………………………………………………………………..Anxiety attack

You know you’re a Shy Guy if…

You find yourself frozen, stiff, awkward, immobile at the mere thought of introducing yourself, or saying hello much less asking a pretty woman for her phone number

How to stop being shy around beautiful women

On a more serious note, If you are painfully shy and need help to stop being shy or coaching to change the old patterns and habits of belief and behavior that are keeping you lonely, reach out!

Interested in other hypnosis videos and self help programs? Got questions? I’m a real guy and I’m here for you with some honest answers so if you’d like to reach out and contact me that’s cool, let’s talk.

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